The Perfume
This is a touching story that has been making the
rounds on the Internet. The author is unknown.
As she stood in front of her 5th-grade class on the
very first day of school, she told the children an untruth. Like most
teachers, she looked at her students and said that she loved them all
the same. However, that was impossible, because there in the front row,
slumped in his seat, was a little boy named Teddy.
Mrs. Thompson had watched Teddy the year before and
noticed that he did not play well with the other children, that his
clothes were messy and that he constantly needed a bath. In addition,
Teddy could be unpleasant.
It got to the point where Mrs. Thompson would actually
take delight in marking his papers with a broad red pen, making bold
X's and then putting a big "F" at the top of his papers At
the school where Mrs. Thompson taught, she was required to review each
child's past records and she put Teddy's off until last. However, when
she reviewed his file, she was in for a surprise.
Teddy's 1st-grade teacher wrote, "Teddy is a
bright child with a ready laugh. He does his work neatly and has good
manners...he is a joy to be around."
His 2nd-grade teacher wrote, "Teddy is an excellent
student, well liked by his classmates, but he is troubled because his
mother has a terminal illness and life at home must be a struggle."
His 3rd-grade teacher wrote, "His mother's death
has been hard on him. He tries to do his best, but his father doesn't
show much interest and his home life will soon affect him if some steps
aren't taken."
Teddy's 4th-grade teacher wrote, "Teddy is withdrawn
and doesn't show much interest in school. He doesn't have many friends
and he sometimes sleeps in class."
By now, Mrs. Thompson realized the problem and she
was ashamed of herself. She felt even worse when her students brought
her Christmas presents, wrapped in beautiful ribbons and bright paper,
except for Teddy's. His present was clumsily wrapped in the heavy, brown
paper that he got from a grocery bag. Mrs. Thompson took pains to open
it in the middle of the other presents. Some of the children started
to laugh when she found a rhinestone bracelet with some of the stones
missing, and a bottle that was one-quarter full of perfume. But she
stifled the children's laughter when she exclaimed how pretty the bracelet
was, putting it on, and dabbing some of the perfume on her wrist. Teddy
stayed after school that day just long enough to say, "Mrs. Thompson,
today you smelled just like my Mom used to." After the children
left, she cried for at least an hour.
On that very day, she quit teaching reading, writing
and arithmetic. Instead, she began to teach children. Mrs. Thompson
paid particular attention to Teddy. As she worked with him, his mind
seemed to come alive The more she encouraged him, the faster he responded.
By the end of the year, Teddy had become one of the smartest children
in the class and, despite her lie that she would love all the children
the same, Teddy became one of her "teacher's pets."
A year later, she found a note under her door, from
Teddy, telling her that she was still the best teacher he ever had in
his whole life.
Six years went by before she got another note from
Teddy. He then wrote that he had finished high school, third in his
class, and she was still the best teacher he ever had in his whole life.
Four years after that, she got another letter, saying
that while things had been tough at times, he'd stayed in school, had
stuck with it, and would soon graduate from college with the highest
of honors. He assured Mrs. Thompson that she was still the best and
favorite teacher he had ever had in his whole life.
Then four more years passed and yet another letter
came. This time he explained that after he got his bachelor's degree,
he decided to go a little further. The letter explained that she was
still the best and favorite teacher he ever had. But now his name was
a little longer...the letter was signed, MD.
The story does not end there. You see, there was yet
another letter that spring. Teddy said he had met this girl and was
going to be married. He explained that his father had died a couple
of years ago and he was wondering if Mrs. Thompson might agree to sit
at the wedding in the place that was usually reserved for the mother
of the groom.
Of course, Mrs. Thompson did. And guess what? She
wore that bracelet, the one with several rhinestones missing. Moreover,
she made sure she was wearing the perfume that Teddy remembered his
mother wearing on their last Christmas together.
They hugged each other, and Teddy, now the doctor,
whispered in Mrs. Thompson's ear, "Thank you Mrs. Thompson for
believing in me. Thank you so much for making me feel important and
showing me that I could make a difference."
Mrs. Thompson, with tears in her eyes, whispered back.
She said, "Teddy, you have it all wrong. You were the one who taught
me that I could make a difference. I didn't know how to teach until
I met you."
Posted February 11, 2004